Why Do I Miss My Sleepy Window and Then Feel Wide Awake? By Dr. Charles R. Freeman, Ph.D. In my previous post “Can Screen Addiction Cause Insomnia?”, I mentioned a concept of a sleepy window, and today I want to elaborate on this phenomenon. What happens is that if you
Many people ask this question after experiencing several frustrating nights of insomnia. A medication helps at first. Sleep improves. Then, sometimes suddenly, the sleeping pills stop working. The person finds themselves awake again and often feels more discouraged than before. In many cases, the medication did not completely fail. Something
Yes. Health anxiety can cause insomnia, and insomnia can make health anxiety worse. A person may begin with a real sleep problem, but the fear about what poor sleep means can become one of the main reasons the nervous system stays awake.
This pattern often starts suddenly. Someone who has
Many people with insomnia become obsessed with fixing sleep because the brain starts treating wakefulness as an emergency. A few bad nights can turn into hours of research, symptom checking, medication worry, rigid routines, and constant fear about what will happen if sleep does not return.
This pattern makes sense.
Childhood criticism can affect adult sleep because the nervous system may learn to stay alert for judgment, conflict, disappointment, or rejection. Years later, that same alert system can show up at night as insomnia, rumination, early-morning waking, and difficulty relaxing.
Many adults do not connect sleep problems with childhood experiences.
Successful professionals often develop severe insomnia for reasons that have little to do with sleep itself. The problem is frequently driven by chronic stress, perfectionism, responsibility, self-criticism, anxiety, and a nervous system that rarely has an opportunity to fully relax.
Many people assume insomnia affects individuals who are disorganized, unmotivated,
Cognitive distortions can keep you awake at night by turning normal worries into threats, mistakes into disasters, and wakefulness into panic. The body may be tired, but the mind stays active because it is interpreting thoughts as danger.
Many people with insomnia believe they have a sleep problem only. They
Yes. Perfectionism can cause insomnia when the mind stays active at night reviewing mistakes, judging performance, comparing life progress, and trying to prevent future failure. The person may be exhausted, but the nervous system remains on alert.
Many perfectionistic people do not think of themselves as anxious. They may describe
Sometimes insomnia is not really about sleep. The sleep problem is real, but the cause may be anxiety, trauma, perfectionism, stress, rumination, or a nervous system that has learned to stay on alert at night.
Many people come to treatment after trying sleep hygiene, supplements, medications, meditation apps, or advice
Yes, anxiety can absolutely cause chronic insomnia. It can also maintain it long after the original stressor has passed. In my clinical work, I often see that people are not just struggling with sleep. They are struggling with a nervous system that has learned to stay alert, a mind that
Sleep Hypnosis vs CBT-I: What’s the Difference? By Dr. Charles R. Freeman, Ph.D. Sleep hypnosis vs CBT-I is a common question for people who want help with insomnia without relying only on medication. Sleep hypnosis and CBT-I can both help with insomnia, but they are not the same treatment. Sleep
Yes, the way you think can make sleep, anxiety, PTSD symptoms, and emotional distress worse. That does not mean your symptoms are your fault. It means that thoughts, emotions, physical symptoms, and behavior influence one another. When the mind gets stuck in fear-based or extreme thinking, the body often follows
